Conscious Girlfriend is the #1 global leader in dating and relationship education for lesbians and queer women. Women from 18 countries have taken our classes! In this crisis time, we’re coming together as a community to learn and connect. If not now, when?

Extraordinary times demand extraordinary response. Therefore, we present the first-ever:

Conscious Girlfriend

Virtual Academy 

April 2020

A Month of Connection, Support & Skill-Building

for Women Who Love Women - Via Zoom!




For now, Tuesdays & Saturdays, 12:00-1:30 PST & 6:00-7:30 PST.

(Plus some additional free offerings from community members on other dates!

Please scroll all the way down to see the full list.)

Conscious Connection for Friendship or More

(Group and pair conversations)

We’ll start with some heart-opening, grounding exercises as a group, then pair up (yes, Zoom lets us do that!) for some brief, structured, emotionally connecting conversations one-on-one. You’ll have a chance to interact briefly and privately with 6 or more different women. Then we’ll come back together for a loving community closure.


Saturday, April 4, 12:00-1:30 PST

Saturday, April 11, 6:00-7:30 PST

Saturday, April 25, 6:00-7:30 PST



Attend one, two or three – there will be different women each time!




Connection for Spiritually-Oriented Women

(Group and pair conversations)

Whether you're Buddhist, pagan, Christian, Jewish, Muslim, "spiritual but not religious," an empath, healer, yogini, in 12-step or have some other path, this group is a chance for you to meet up to 6 other women and share 1:1 conversations on themes like: How can your spiritual beliefs and practices keep you centered in this time? How can you serve others? How can you make meaning of this crisis? What are the gifts of this moment, as well as its challenges? 


Saturday, April 11, 12:00-1:30 PST

Tuesday, April 14, 6:00-7:30

Tuesday, April 28, 12:00-1:30 PST


Attend on one or all dates – there will be different women each time!




How to Call In Your Soulmate (Even If You're Quarantined!)

Sheltering in place alone doesn't have to be lonely! In this group we'll discuss how to form nourishing connections with women online, why this crisis can actually help you connect, and how to release internal blocks that might be keeping you from the partnership you want. We'll do some pair exercises, too. 


Tuesday, April 7, 12:00-1:30 PST

Saturday, April 18, 12:00-1:30 PST

Tuesday, April 21, 6:00-7:30 PST


Attend on one or all dates – there will be different women each time!




Use your unexpected free time to become a more Conscious Girlfriend! 

Audio and video recordings provided for all classes.

Solo Sexual Enlivenment

(It's Good for Your Immune System, and Fun, Too)

How can you release shame and more fully celebrate your unique erotic self? How and why can fantasies enliven your solo sex life? How much pleasure can you tolerate without orgasm? What if self-pleasure doesn't have to be about orgasm at all - or, what if you can have more kinds of orgasms than you ever imagined? Learn about your erotic blueprint, your sexual brakes and gas pedal, the role of fantasies, and more. There will be no nudity or sexual touch during the call, but there will be lots of suggestions for fun, enlivening "homework" if you choose!    


Tuesday, April 21, 12:00-1:30 PST



From Conflict to Connection in 5 Magic Steps 

Everybody's stressed these days, and that can lead to rocky times either internally, or with the people you love. In this class we’ll cover and then practice one of Conscious Girlfriend’s key tools for working skillfully with strong emotions: the SCORE process. SCORE works equally well in all relationships. Best of all, you can use it on your own, even if the other person isn't interested in learning this tool. We’ll do real-life demonstrations and group practice so you can really start to internalize this life-changing skill.  


Tuesday, April 7, 6:00-7:30 PST


Speak & Be Heard, Listen & Connect: Communication Power Tools

Learn why most common communication styles actually create distance rather than closeness, and how to shift that so you're both more likely to be heard and understood, and also more able to listen to others. Shift from shut-down, anger or defensiveness (yours or someone else's) to comunication that really works! We’ll do real-life demonstrations and practice, so you can leave this class with upgraded skills to use immediately.    


Saturday, April 18, 6:00-7:30 PST


The Art & Science of Loving Boundaries & Requests

Do you avoid saying No for fear of hurting someone or making them mad? Do you struggle to ask for what you really want? Most women do -- but ironically, they actually keep us from the closeness we desire. In this class you'll learn why boundaries actually create intimace, and how to make clear, specific requests that others actually want to fulfill. And we'll practice and do demonstrations, so you'll be able to implement these new skills for avoiding resentment and creating closeness in all your relationships.


Tuesday, April 14, 12:00-1:30

Join Us Here!

Skills for

Hard Times Bundle


  • Attend as many of the 4 classes as you want.

Community Connection Bundle


  • Attend as many of the 9 groups as you want.

Month-Long "Gym" for the Heart & Mind! 


  • Attend as many of the 9 groups and 4 classes as you want all month, and get the Attachment Healing Intensive course below as a free bonus!


+ Special Bonus:

Attachment Healing Intensive

(comes free with monthly membership)


The three-module Attachment Healing Intensive course, which normally sells for $97 on its own, will teach you to understand and heal the #1 cause of lesbian relationship problems: what happens when one woman wants more closeness, and the other needs more space. The bad news is, almost all couples have this challenge. The good news is, you can re-wire your brain for greater flexibility around both intimacy and autonomy -- resulting in drama-free, low-conflict, trusting and secure connection. If you’re in a relationship, the new skills you’ll learn in this class can restore easy love! If you’re single, you’ll have light-bulb moments about past relationships, and gain tools for a healthy, connected relationship in the future. 

Here's the Schedule Day by Day

(all times are Pacific Time, so please adjust for your own time zone!)


Saturday, April 4, 12:00-1:30 - Conscious Connection (Group)


Tuesday, April 7, 12:00-1:30 - Find Your Soulmate (Group)

Tuesday, April 7, 6:00-7:30 - From Conflict to Connection (Class)


Saturday, April 11, 12:00-1:30 - Connection for Spiritual Women (Group)

Saturday, April 11, 6:00-7:30 - Conscious Connection (Group)


Tuesday, April 14, 12:00-1:30 - Loving Boundaries & Requests (Class)

Tuesday, April 14, 6:00-7:30 - Connection for Spiritual Women (Group)


Saturday, April 18, 12:00-1:30 - Find Your Soulmate (Group)

Saturday, April 18, 6:00-7:30 - Communication Power Tools (Class)


Tuesday, April 21, 12:00-1:30 - Solo Sexual Enlivenment (Class)

Tuesday, April 21, 6:00-7:30 - Find Your Soulmate (Group)


Saturday, April 25, 6:00-7:30 - Conscious Connection (Group)


Tuesday, April 28, 12:00-1:30 - Connection for Spiritual Women (Group)


Scroll back up to sign up, under the "Join Us Here" Heading. Your pricing options include:


1) Joining all 4 of the classes (attend some or all; recordings will be provided; $49) 


2) Joining all 9 of the groups (attend some or all; there will be no recordings, since these groups are about meeting women; $89) or


3) Getting a Full Membership to the Conscious Girlfriend Virtual Academy for April! This is the best deal, because you can attend as many of the 4 classes and 9 groups as you want, plus you get access to the recordings of the Attachment Healing class as a bonus ($99!) Think of it like a month-long membership for your heart, mind and soul.


Please support this love offering by signing up above, where it says "Join Us Now"


And if you can't afford the $$, email with your scholarship request.

For this month, no one will be turned away for lack of funds. 




(These are not official Conscious Girlfriend events, but generous offerings from members of our community!)



Mon, April 27th, 4:00 pm PST

Queer Your Living Room Connection Concert – queer folksinger/songwriter

Jodi McLaren – visit for music samples!


Thurs, April 30th, 6:00-7:00 pm PST

Un-Hiding Your Talents with Misha Safran

Misha Safran, Requires password

Email for Zoom password:






Holly Hart is offering support for potentially-overwhelmed parents or caregivers trying to home-school (and just be with their kids so much more than usual) uring this time! She is a genius California-credentialed educator with a gift for making learning fun and playful. Please email her with questions:







Un-Hiding Your Talents with Misha Safran



Do you have a talent you know about? Do you have a talent you have yet to uncover? Maybe you are somewhere in the middle of those and just a bit shy to share! In these four weeks of April we will begin to explore. We will create a safe space for each of us to move into our creative beings, encourage and inspire each other to take specific steps to building upon an existing talent or to doing something new! We will then take turns sharing our feelings about the process as well as claiming our victories as we experience them. And, finally, we will embrace and celebrate each one of us during the last class where each person can share their final product or latest progress!!! Creativity may include, but not limited to, cooking, photography, drawing, painting, learning a language, playing an instrument, writing jokes or poetry, song writing, etc. 


How to Attend: Email Misha at with your first and last names as well as the title of this class for Zoom Room Password

Thursdays 6-7pm PST 

(Depending on class size, we may add 30 minutes at the end to allow enough time for all to participate)


9 Introductions, 

16 Guest presenter: TBA

23 Guest presenter: Jodi McLaren 

30 Talent sharing  







Monday April 27th, 4pm PST / 7pm EST Queer Your Living Room Connection Concert with Jodi McLaren: 

Connect with queer women across the country as Jodi McLaren shares soulful songs and honest stories from a decade of lesbian dating. Concert includes a candle lighting ritual, small group reflection, and opportunities to sing along, laugh, cry, and create our own song as a group!

Attend this concert here:

It’s best to attend via computer or smart phone! But if you have to call in, here are the instructions:

Dial any of the following U.S. numbers: 669 900 6833, 253 215 8782, 301 715 8592, 312 626 6799 or    646 876 9923

Then enter Meeting ID: 468 409 525


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